Friday, August 17, 2018

Fair With a Chance Of Mini Donuts

While she may not be able to tell us, we know that the State Fair has always been a special place for Grace. She received her AmTryke from the Springfield American Business Club at the State Fair. She got her picture taken with Queen Summer Robbins at the State Fair. And she had her first mini donut at the State Fair. All memorable moments for sure.

Charley got to pet a rabbit in the FFA tent!
Kisses for a baby calf!
This year was no different as we had one of our best trips to the fair yet. We weren't sure we were going to make it in 2018 due to some time conflicts, but we managed to find some time to go on Friday, Aug. 17. Mother Nature threatened to rain on our parade, literally, but we avoided the heavy stuff for the most part.
Petting a baby chick!
Hanging out with the baby chicks!
Grace hanging out with Jonah Elvidge's sheep.
The fair almost always revolves around food for us (ie. the aforementioned mini donuts), so our first stop was at the commodities pavilion for a burger, an italian beef and a hot dog. Charley was supposed to get the hot dog, but decided to hold out for something else instead.

Charley would have stayed all day in the ag tent playing with the corn.
After lunch, we made our way to the FFA petting zoo, which was a highlight of our trip. Neither Mary nor I did FFA when we were in school, but we have a great fondness for the program. Grace, a little tired from PT, slept through most of the excursion, but we may have a future farmer on our hands with Charley. After a brief and hesitant encounter with a bunny, Charley warmed up to the baby calf, trying to kiss it on the nose. The calf was equally affectionate, attempting to gnaw a hole in Mary's pants.

Charley loved dancing (and trying to get in the puddles) to Liz Bentley.
Just like Grace was when she was her age, Charley was equally attracted to the rest of the animals, not always willing to pet, but definitely content to check out the goat, baby chicken and lamb, which belonged to Jonah Elvidge. The Elvidge family have been huge supporters of Grace and our journey so it was cool to see their name on the side of the pen for everyone to see. We were also awful proud to see Hillsboro's Peyton Tester's picture in the exhibit honoring all of this year's star farmers.

Professor Longhair included Grace in his magic show at Kids Korner.
Cheesing with Professor Longhair after his show.
After the FFA exhibit, we went to an Illinois Agriculture tent, where Charley could have stayed for hours playing in the corn and with the tractors. We made a brief stop at the Illinois State Police tent, then headed to the dairy barn for a cream puff and some ice cream. By this time Grace had woken up and Charley thought the ice cream sounded better than the hot dog, so we found a spot under the Lincoln Stage pavilion to feed the girls.

Mommy's favorite exhibit is the butter cow!
It turned out to be a perfect fit as Mary fed Grace while we listened to Liz Bentley sing on stage. We really enjoyed the music (Charley even danced a little) and we hope that Miss Bentley continues on her path. 

By the time Grace was done eating, the rain had stopped and we made our way to the Kids Corner, where Grace's friend Professor Longhair was doing a magic show. The good professor has performed at both of the Grace 5K races and has been an awesome friend to our little girl. We really enjoyed the magic show and we were touched that Professor Longhair always made sure to come to the back row where we sat to make sure that Grace saw the trick too. People that talk to Grace and treat her like every other kiddo are our favorites.

Our favorite little Mini Donut . . . 
Once the show finished, we had one last stop at the cow barn, where Charley tried her hand at milking a cow. Again, I think we have a future farmer on our hands. Who knows, maybe Aunt Monica can get her into showing cattle. We made one last stop for some mini donuts and we made our way out of the fairgrounds with two sleepy girls.

Charley got to milk a cow for the first time!
We made one more stop in Springfield at Grandma Kim's work to say hi before we went home though. Mini donuts are always her favorite so we wanted to make sure that she had a little pick me up while she finished up her Friday. Ever helpful, Charley made sure the bag wasn't too heavy and had five donuts while we waited for Grandma to come out. Both girls gave my mom big smiles when they saw her and it was an awesome end to the trip. 

All tuckered out at the fair.
It's not always going to work for us to go to the fair, but we are really glad that it did this year. We had a lot of fun, took a lot of pictures and of course, ate quite a few mini donuts. Hopefully we can do the same next year.


Tuesday, August 14, 2018

All Fore Gracie

There were plenty of storylines regarding the 100th annual PGA Championship, held at Bellerive Country Club near St. Louis. There was Brooks Kopeka winning his second major of the year and third in 14 months. There was the return to form of Tiger Woods, who played like the Tiger of old and nearly caught Kopeka. And there was the swarms of people who invaded the fairways of Bellerive and provided a spark to a city desperately in need of something positive. And that's just a taste of the stories from what was a truly special event.

Flat Gracie thought the PGA trophy was huge!
Flat Gracie checks out the leaderboard.

My focus however was on a small piece of paper adorned with a purple drawing of a princess and two slogans that have been a huge part of my family's life since November 2014. That was when we found out that our daughter Grace, who will be seven on Sept. 7, had a rare genetic disorder called infantile neuroaxonal dystrophy or INAD. It's been a long road since then, with doctor visits, physical therapy and a lot of tears, but it truly has been a Grace-Filled Journey, one of the two aforementioned slogans.

Kyle and Uncle Daniel raising awareness to #beatINAD

The other words on the sign were #BeatINAD, which is more of a rallying cry. Since we learned of Grace's condition, we've raised close to $200,000 for INAD research in hopes of one day curing our little girl. Even if that never happens, we feel truly blessed that our small county of fewer than 30,000 people has shown us such love and support.

Flat Gracie checks out the fairway at Bellerive.

Throngs of golf fans came out to the PGA tournament.
But back to the PGA Championships. Prior to Sunday, I had never been to a PGA event, let alone a major. The closest I had come was covering an LPGA tournament in Springfield, IL, for the newspaper that my beautiful wife Mary and I both work for. That was cool, but Sunday's final round was a different animal entirely.

Rory McIlroy
Rory McIlroy
I'm a novice PGA fan at best, so attending the event in person wasn't really on my radar until my brother Daniel texted me that his wife Monica had received four tickets through her job in Columbia, MO. I almost turned them down, Sunday is a busy day for us at the paper, but I thought better of it and made plans to head to Bellerive.

Tommy Fleetwood
You couldn't help but be in awe of the talent of these players. Par is a bad day. Bogeys and doubles are almost unfathomable. For me, it's a miracle if get out of the clubhouse without putting a ball in the water. It was one of the first times that I really understood the passion that golf fans have for the sport.

Michael Lorenzo-Vera
Since neither my brother, nor the other two guys joining us had ever been to a PGA event before, we just wandered around and tried not to look too out of place. Eventually we made it to the first hole, just in time to watch Rory McIlroy, one of the best players in the world. As McIlroy and Michael Lorenzo-Vera made their way down the first fairway, my attention turned to the rolled up paper with the princess on it.

Jordan Speith
Flat Gracie, which we had dubbed the sign, had already made appearances on our vacation to Washington D.C. and Mary's trip to the Superman statue in Metropolis. Similar to the Flat Stanley project that many elementary school students partake in, our thought is that our friends and followers on social media might get a kick out of where Flat Gracie might end up.

Flat Gracie checked out the PGA fans.
That first photo led to dozens more as I took every chance I could to snap Flat Gracie's picture with some of the best golfers in the world, plus a few guys that just seemed cool. In addition to McIllroy and Lorenzo-Vera, I also got Flat Gracie pics while Tommy Fleetwood and Jordan Speith were playing through.

Our new favorite golfer, Branden Grace.
Branden Grace's leaderboard.
My favorite shots though are the ones with Branden Grace, a South African golfer who I didn't know existed until Sunday. I'm not sure if it's God putting these things in front of us or just happenstance, but our lives seem to be filled with links to Grace. It's led us on some amazing adventures and has created some great friendships, like the one with James Beard Award nominee Rick Lewis of St. Louis' Grace Meat+Three restaurant. I'm hoping to reach out to our new favorite golfer on social media, but even if we never connect, it's pretty cool that he and Grace share the name.

Flat Gracie followed golfer Branden Grace.
Branden Grace
 With work looming, I left around 3 p.m. to make my way back to Hillsboro, IL. It was tempting to blow off work, with the roar of Tigermania echoing in the distance, but duty called. After all, I had been to an event that some could only dream of and had made a ton of good memories with my brother and Flat Gracie.

Grace loved her new "Brooks" teddy bear.
Before leaving, I stopped at the pro shop to pick up a few souvenirs for the girls at home, a bear we named "Brooks" in honor of the champ for Grace, a sippy cup for her little sister Charlotte (aka Charley Danger) and a fun pair of socks for Mary with the tournament logo on them. I managed to snag a couple logo golf balls and a Tervis cup for myself as well, just as a reminder of the day.

Daddy's girls and their new souvenirs
Not that I needed one on the way home or that night. My thoughts hovered around how much fun I had at Bellerive and how blessed I am to have that opportunity to go and raise a little awareness for INAD. While we try to give Grace as many experiences as possible, some things, like the tournament, just aren't in the cards. Even if she's not with us in person though, Grace is always in our hearts and on our minds. Everything I do is because of that little girl and like the 100th PGA Championships, being her dad is a once in a lifetime opportunity.


Sunday, August 5, 2018

Adventures Of Flat Gracie

Last year, instead of taking a family vacation, we decided it was a better idea to have Charlotte and add her into the family. We were blessed to be able to take some time off of work first thing after she was born, which sort of took the place of going on vacation. 

Charley's face pretty much sums up our excitement for vacation!
And while we wouldn't trade it for anything, we were definitely ready to get out of town for a few days this year.  Kyle and I started talking early in the year about where we wanted to go.  Our dream option was taking Grace back to the Disney resort Aulani in Hawaii, where she had her Make-A-Wish trip, but we thought the two long plane rides might be really tough on Grace.

Swimming at the hotel.
Lunch at Primanti Brothers.
In fact, we talked about a lot of places, like Myrtle Beach, Texas, and even Universal Studios in Florida to see the Wizarding World of Harry Potter, since we have been reading those books to Grace for the past few years. We ended up thinking that might be a better trip when Charlotte is older than one.

We had SO much fun visiting John and Emily.
In the end, it was a comment that my brother made when he was home at Christmas that pushed us toward Washington DC. Johnny is serving on Capitol Hill this year as a legislative fellow, and he told us this was the year we should come and see him and get a tour of the Capitol. We figured neither of our girls would get much out of that, but we knew Kyle and I would love it. And we thought it would be a great chance to spend more time with Johnny and Emily.

Watching a World Cup soccer game together.
Grace looked so cute in her soccer jersey.
Since Grace's medical stroller doesn't fly very well, we made plans to drive the 12 hours to the east coast in July and enjoy some fun stops along the way. And since Kyle and I don't do much of anything without trying to raise more awareness for INAD, we brought Flat Gracie along with us for the ride. Similar to the idea of Flat Stanley, we printed out the Princess Grace logo, and used the hashtags #flatgracie and #beatINAD on our posts from our trip. It was a lot of fun, and I think many of Grace's followers enjoyed seeing where we took her.

Hanging out with some presidents at the Nationals game.
Fortunately, the drive both ways was very uneventful, and included a few fun places to eat. Kyle had seen Primanti Brothers on Food Network, so we made a detour in Pennsylvania to try one of their restaurants, where Kyle had a sandwich with the fries already on top!  We also enjoyed swimming at the hotel with the girls, and just generally being together away from all the usual routine. We spend a lot of time during the week making sure Grace gets to therapy appointments, and I have to say that it was nice for one week not to have much of a schedule.

Checking out the World War II Memorial.
With Grace's feeding schedule and the fact that Charlotte is one, we didn't really plan to see many sites in Washington DC, but we picked a few things we thought would be fun. Johnny and Emily took us to the new DC United soccer stadium, where we watched a World Cup game together outside, and we enjoyed meeting the Presidential mascots at a Nationals game on a beautiful Sunday afternoon. As hot as this summer has been, we couldn't have asked for better weather on our trip.

Trying out some Meggrolls!
Grace LOVES gelato!
When Johnny and Emily went back to work during the week, we decided to venture out on our own, which worked pretty well until Charley threw up on the Metro about halfway to our destination. But we made the best of it, and still managed to see a few of the historic monuments after getting her all cleaned up. We had hoped to make it back to the Newseum, which is one of our favorite stops, but we just ran out of time.

Cheesing in front of the Capitol.
The view from the speaker's balcony.
We had a chance to meet up with Congressman Davis.
Johnny gave us an awesome tour of the Capitol one day, that definitely lived up to the hype. We had a great view of Washington DC from the speaker's balcony, and Senator Elizabeth Warren said hi to Grace and Charlotte when we were leaving the Senate building.  We also had a chance to meet up with Congressman Rodney Davis, who gave an awesome speech about Grace in February in honor of Rare Disease Day. It's great to have people like him in our corner.

We loved meeting up with Dr. Kozel at the National Institute of Health.
We had a great time at the National Institute of Health.
Before heading out, we stopped to visit Grace's former geneticist at the National Institute of Health. She's one of our very favorite doctors, so it was wonderful to catch up with her and hear more about her research with Williams Syndrome. It was also just incredibly awesome to be at the National Institute of Health, thinking about all the amazing cures and treatments that are found for devastating diseases. It was definitely a highlight of the trip.

Before officially heading for home, we stopped to visit some of Kyle's cousins in West Virginia, and it was a nice relaxing way to finish our trip. The girls got to swim in an infinity pool at the top of a mountain, and play with cousins Milyn and Jada, who they don't get to see very often. It was a really special part of the trip.

Family photo op at the top of the mountain.
Swimming at the top of the mountain.
I can't close the blog without telling you about one of Kyle's favorite places. On the way home, we found a lack of stops between Lousiville, KY and Evansville, IN, but we needed to make a stop for lunch. We happened upon a Mexican restaurant in Ferdinand, IN, which is home to a very unique monastery and brewery. Kyle thought he would move there in a heartbeat, but we decided it might be a bit too far to commute to work every day.

Kyle loved the monastery in Ferdinand, Indiana.
All in all, we had such a wonderful trip together this year, just enjoying time together. Sometimes it's trips like this that make you forget about INAD. Not that we will don't recognize some of Grace's limitations, but there are no therapy appointments to get to, no working on anything, just being together as a family and enjoying new adventures. And with having such a great time, we can't wait to see where Flat Gracie gets to go next!